LOVE IS THE SHREWDEST,MOST AMBITIOUS AND THE MOST PAYING BUSINESS.

Disclaimer :- If you are a person who is lucky enuff to be loved by the one you love,then this blog is not for u.I will tell u the summary of this blog in one line :”Kya frustoo banda hai be!!”Thanks for visiting. :)

There was a time when I was in my class X. Some gals came to me and offered me their autograph-book.In that there was a Question : “For u love is…………………..”

I thought,thought much over it.And finally cudnt find my vocabulary rich enuff to describe the intoxicating fragrance in my breath,the light anaesthetic state of my mind,which came along with this “word”.So finally I decided that the whole beauty of “love” can be contained only in the word “love” itself.”Love is Love” was my answer to it.

Years have passed by.I went through so many things, which developed my understanding of the human psychology, emotions and behaviors. Now,at this age as I take my pen to write something about “love” ,the above is the statement I come up with.

We all have grown watching movies and serials which project a “rosy” image of love and life for that matter.But the reality is very different. The very concept “true love can bring true love” which we learn from the movies is BIGTIME flawed.In reality, either love is there or it is not.That is to say if love is there u don’t both sides,u don’t have to convince someone,and if it is not there then convincing wont help!!

Lets see why do I see it as a “business”. Let us take the case of a one-sided love affair. Each of us have a unique set of qualities. A set which consists of some elements worthy to be liked and some worthy to be hated. Now, for winning anybody’s love it is not what all qualities u have that matter.Its the “way” in which u unfold/present urself infront of the other person that makes all the difference. If ur way is “smart” enuff then no matter how bad u r on total,u will be loved.If ur way has been “smart” enuff then even if u r hollow as a person, the opposite gender will fill that “hollowness” with their own imagination and u will appear “ohhhh-sooo-special”.Honesty is something “least admired” in this “business”.More suave u r,better r ur chances!! Ehh..and u thought that if u tell someone how much s/he means for u s/he will come running to u???:).

No,my dear friend. The more emotions u admit to have for the other person,more u fall in his/her eyes.U might even become “unworthy” of their frdship!!The morale of the story is to put ur “brains” and not ur “heart”. Because, U don’t even need to “love” someone to win his/her love.

I called this business the “the shrewdest and the most ambitious”. Yes, because the players involved are very very ambitious and selfish in their approach. The decisions for giving away one’s heart is based on the amount of expectation to get a better person in the future. And generally after getting one person, people’s ambitions rise up for the “better ones”. It’s highly probable that no “better person” exists, but just for the sake of one’s own satisfaction that the one didn’t leave any stone unturned.And has made the best choice.Just for the “sake” of one’s satisfaction that is. Ambitious, isn’t it!!??

Finally, all of us know how is it the “most paying”. It’s a wonderful feeling being loved and admired isn’t it??? :)

Before, I conclude I would like to say that I have no first hand experience in love .I have gathered the above experiences seeing my friends crumble under the “true emotions” they had for their respective “someones”.

I still believe in the “love” I believed when I was in class 10.But just that now I know that NO PERSON in the world I live is worthy of holding that position in my or anyone’s heart.The position of “the GODDESS” i.e.!!!

For me, friendship is the most beautiful and selfless concept of this world.And if u r reading these ending lines, u r my true friend.I must thank you for everything !!

………Ya, I will love one day.But in some other world…..The world where everyone is judged on the basis of the innocence of their emotions; on the basis of upto what extent can they go to bring one smile on someone’s face; on the basis of their loyality, the care they can take. GOSH!! let us cut it here.

Thanks for reading . :)